The impact domestic violence on family and friends: A phenomenological investigation into observer responses

Globally domestic violence (DV) has had significant exposure within the media. However, there has been little research on the observers, that is, family and friends who are also affected by DV. The aim of this study was to understand what it is like for observers of DV, who are family or friends, as these experiences are not well understood. The approach to inquiry adopted for this study was that of hermeneutic phenomenology using van Manen’s approach to research. Data was gathered through the use of the internet accessing publicly available stories as provided by those who observed domestic violence. Findings of the research shows that friends/family who are observers of DV can be impacted resulting depression, Post-Traumatic Stress and having to make the ultimate decision to withdraw support and contact in order for their personal well-being when a victim continues to sustain abuse over a long period of time. This finding is significant as there is a need to extend services to include those who are in the supportive role, particularly if the DV continues for many years. Resilience theory aided advanced analysis leading to further new knowledge, including the need for professionals to stimulate resilience protective factors such as hope, hardiness and self-efficacy in the observer. High levels of resilience is more likely to sustain the support that a friend or family provides for their loved one who lives with DV.